Week Five: Oct 21st - Oct 27th

Oct 21^st

Today was pretty quiet except for a visit to Brandeis.  We went to a staff meeting and passed you around.

Oct 22^nd

This pumpkin hat was knit for you by Mumma.  I actually had to make two for you because the first one was too big.  Today we went to Unica to visit Mumma’s co-workers.  We’ll have to go back though because many people were out of the office.

Oct 23^rd

You ran errands for a while with Mumma and Daddy and in the evening we had a visit from Uncle Andrew and Aunt Gentry.  Uncle Andrew asked, “Can I hold him?  I haven’t held him yet today.”  There’s no doubt- he’s smitten.  Uncle Andrew and Aunt Gentry also brought our cats (Brit and Tony) back home.  The cats were a little unsure of you but well behaved.

Oct 24^th

Tonight we gathered at West Street (Nana and Granpa’s house) to celebrate all of the fall birthdays.  Everyone must enjoy spending time with you because there were many gifts of babysitting that were given.

Oct 25^th

Mumma’s Aunt Cathrine and Uncle Bob were on their way to NJ from their house in Maine and they were stopping to visit Mimi.  Mimi called to see if we could stop by so that they could meet you.  We were happy to oblige!  This was also Mumma’s first day alone with you because Daddy had to go back to work.

Oct 26^th

Nurse Lora came by today and you’re now up to 5lbs, 15oz.  Other than that it was a pretty quiet day at home.  You really are a very good baby.  In the evening you went with Mumma to a wake for Nana’s Aunty Anne who had recently passed away.  All of the Rosseels who were there loved getting to meet you.

Oct 27^th

Today was a long day of doctor’s visits.  We started with a  visit to the pediatrician in the morning.  You weighed 5lbs, 15oz by their scale.  Then we went off to Children’s.  By their scale you were 6lbs and either 1 or 2 ounces- I don’t remember which.  Mumma met with lactation to work on your breastfeeding.  You also had an EKG and an ECHO.  Your cardiologist says everything looks normal for you.

Week Four: Oct 14th - Oct 20th

Oct 14^th

We tried putting you in cloth diapers today.  They were way too big.  Guess I’ll have to get you smaller ones.  Daddy watched you in the afternoon so that Mumma could take a much needed nap.  We’ve had a little bit better luck at breastfeeding, but you get sleepy quickly.  When I pump I get about twice what you eat.

Oct 15^th

Back at Children’s today for follow-up appointments.  You had an x-ray, EKG, blood work, and you met with Dr. B, your cardiologist.  Your weight is now 4lbs, 11oz.  After a long time at the hospital we headed home with a stop at the yarn store so that Mumma could get supplies to make you a present.

Oct 16^th

This morning we bought Daddy a display for the store he’ll be in this holiday season.  After bringing it home we headed out again- this time to Mimi’s.  She always loves to see you.  On the way home we stopped at Target.  You sure do get around a lot!

Oct 17^th

On Sunday we went to church to show you off to everyone who has been praying for you.  You were a hit.  In the afternoon Uncle Andrew and Aunt Gentry came for a visit.  Unfortunately you only wore this outfit once before outgrowing it.

Oct 18^th

Monday was a low-key day at home.  After running around so much lately, I guess we all needed a day to do nothing.

Oct 19^th

Nurse Lora (the visiting nurse) came today.  You weigh 5lbs, 1 oz.  We decided to wait until tomorrow’s pediatrician visit to make sure you’re over 5lbs before moving you into your car seat.  Nurse Lora also suggested you start having tummy time.  You hated it.

Oct 20^th

You now weigh over 5 lbs (5lbs, 4 oz)!  This means that you no longer need the car bed.  We celebrated by going for a walk.

 

 

Week Three: Oct 7th - Oct 13th

Oct 7^th

Mimi was able to visit you again today and we surprised her by asking her if she wanted to hold you.  We piled some pillows in her lap to help support you and placed you in her arms.  She was very excited.  You also wore clothes for the first time today.  Previously you had just been swaddled in a blanket.

Since we hadn’t known you would be allowed clothes, we didn’t have anything for you to wear.  Luckily the hospital has some donated clothes.  Apparently this was the only preemie outfit to be found, but it’s perfect.  Another big milestone today was the removal of your nasal cannula.  You’re now breathing room air.

Oct 8^th
 Today was a big day for you!

• You had your PICC line removed
• You had your pacing wires removed
• You took a bottle at multiple feedings.  (Pretty soon no more feeding tube!)
• You nursed from the breast for about 20 minutes.
• We also spent the night at the hospital.

Oct 9^th

Bright and early this morning Granpa and Nana came to visit.  Today was also our first full day with you, although we did go out for a while for lunch.  You are now doing so well drinking from a bottle that your feeding tube was removed.  You’re very happy about that- many times you tried to pull it out yourself.

Oct 10^th

As far as we can tell, you’re meeting all of your requirements to be able to go home.  Unfortunately, since it’s the weekend things move a bit more slowly.  We’ll have to speak with your cardiologist regarding next steps.  Daddy went home tonight, but Mumma stayed with you at Children’s.

Oct 11^th

These cute booties arrived for you from Chris & Carolyn Pratt.  Daddy brought them in for you to wear.  Today we spent most of the day waiting and wondering if we would be able to speak to your doctor.  Finally around 8pm he came to your room.  Things look promising!  You took your car seat test today (and passed) although you didn’t like it.

Oct 12^th

You’re going home!  October 12^th (Uncle Andrew’s birthday) was an exciting day because we got to take you home.  Mumma also got a quick lesson at the hospital in how to give you a bath.  When we got home Mumma and Daddy were both a little unsure of what to do with you.

Oct 13^th

Your first full day at home was a busy one!  You had your first visit from Lora, the visiting nurse, and also your first visit to Dr. D, your pediatrician.  You now weigh 4lbs, 9oz.  In the afternoon we went to the mall to run some errands.  We went to lunch and Daddy held you since you’re too little for your car seat.  After errands we went to West Street and Aunty Hanna met you.

I Wanna Go Home

There's a song by James (my favorite band, who's concert we had to miss because I was in the hospital and Bennett was only 3 days old) that has the chorus

I wanna go home, right now
I wanna go home right now
I wanna go home, right now
I wanna go home.

That's how we've been feeling the past few days.  I think Chris and I have both been singing it.  The end is in sight, but still a bit unknown.  I think we've been a little frustrated all weekend, and also today.  On Friday there had been mention about maybe going home in the middle of the week.  Chris thought he remembered someone mentioning Tuesday as a possibility.  Well here it is Monday night, and we still didn't seem to have much definitive progress.

Earlier in the day the nurse practitioner said the decision of when we can go home is up to Bennett's cardiologist.  She tried getting in touch with him, but he was "un-pageable".  Finally she emailed back and forth with him and we were able to meet with him a little after 8:00 tonight.

Meanwhile he had another ECHO showing things as being normal for Bennett.  He had blood drawn which showed elevated creatinine levels.  Basically his levels are similar to those of a 10-year-old.  So tomorrow there will be additional tests to try to figure out that issue.  Bennett also had an x-ray.  Ugh, I felt so bad for the little guy- strapped to a table in just his diaper and I had to hold his arms steady above his head.  There was a lot of loud screaming.

As a write this, Bennett is taking his car seat challenge.  This is a requirement of the hospital before he can go home.  He has to be strapped in his car seat for 90 minutes while being on the monitor.  If there are any major drops or peaks to his stats during those 90 minutes, he fails.  What's annoying though is that Bennett's car seat is only rated for babies over 5 pounds.  Since Bennett is still below this weight, we had to buy a car bed.  This allows him to lie flat in the car.  However, it's strapped directly into the car and isn't easily removed.  This means we can't easily remove the car seat to put him in a stroller, etc.  But it was either this or pay twice as much for a standard car seat that is rated for 4 pound babies.

Also before discharge we'll have to meet with someone from nutrition to learn the secret formula to his high calorie breast milk (they add formula powder and other ingredients to turn 20 calorie breast milk into 30 calorie).  We also will need to get his prescriptions filled so that we can have practice drawing them up.  (Currently they have been coming pre-filled from the pharmacy.)  Plus arrangements need to be made for visiting nurses, we need to find him a pediatrician, and I'm sure a million other things.

But back to our meeting with the cardiologist tonight.  I asked when we could go home.  He said this week.  He talked about the various tests tomorrow re the creatinine issue.  Wednesday was mentioned.  And then I asked about if tomorrow would even be an option.    It's a possibility, assuming all the tests and everything else can be arranged!  If it does happen, it will likely be later in the day, but that's ok by us!

If tomorrow does become an option, it's going to be a busy day!  I sometimes feel as if there are a million people coming and and out of the room- nurses, clinical assistants, plebotomists, people from lactation, social workers, doctors, case managers, neurologists, etc.  I think that tomorrow it's going to be even more hectic!

And as an aside, this makes 3 posts in a row where the titles have been songs.

I've got no tubes...

Sung to the tune of I've Got No Strings from Pinnocchio

I've got no tubes
To hold me down
To make me fret, or make me frown
I had tubes
But now I'm free
There are no tubes on me

Yup, that's right.  The little guy lost his feeding tube this morning.  Now he's only connected by the standard monitoring wires, and they do disconnect those from time to time.

We have progress!

So much has happened today! Bennett...

• had his PICC line removed.
• had his pacing wires removed 
• took a bottle at multiple feedings today (yesterday he guzzled one down but then didn't want one at a second feeding)
• nursed from the breast for 20 minutes!!!!!
• and yesterday he had his nasal cannula removed.

On the not so fun side, we just learned that since his car seat is only recommended for over 5 pounds, we'll need to find something else for him until he reaches that weight.  :(  So rather than spending lots of money on a new carrier style car seat that is rated for over 4 pounds we'll probably be buying (through the hospital) a car seat bed that he can use until he reaches 5 pounds.  Hopefully we won't get much rain or other icky weather until he can fit in his regular car seat as I imagine it will be more of a pain to get him in and out of the car.

But maybe some of the best news?  Looks like we're aiming for the middle of the week to be able to take Bennett home!  Since he will still be on some meds we'll start to get training on how to administer those.  I guess now we just need to really crack down and find him a pediatrician.

Ch-ch-ch-changes...

As we were pulling into the parking garage yesterday, we got a call that Bennett was going to be moving out of the Cardiac ICU to "the floor".  So withing about half an hour of us getting there, he was in his new room.  Talk about culture shock for poor mom and dad!  We were used to the nurses doing pretty much all of Bennett's care in the ICU, but now it's pretty much up to us.  Makes sense, but we weren't ready for that.  Combine that shock with a horrible attempt at breastfeeding, and I was a blubbering mess yesterday.

Today was a much better day.  I think it was the fact that we now knew what we were up for.  And we had bags in the car so that if we decided to spend the night we could.  I have a bit of Mommy guilt that I'm not staying there, but they keep saying it's ok.  We decided to go home tonight, but this weekend I think we'll be staying. 

Sorry I haven't updated with new pictures in a while.  They're up on Facebook, but not here.  Blogger is a blocked site at the hospital (or at least access is very limited) so I can only update from home.  I'll try to get some new pictures of Bennett soon though.