He's Here!

I'm sure most readers of this blog have heard already, but Bennett Henry Bredford made his entry into the world on Wednesday at 10:20pm.  He weighed in at 4 lbs, 4 ounces and is 17" long.

There's plenty that can be told about why he came early and how he's doing, but I'm too tired to think!  The short answer is that due to late decels noticed during NSTs that led to a few hours of continuous monitoring and ultimately the decision for him to be delivered (c-section). 

Thursday afternoon he had his first surgery which went very well.  However the anesthesiologist commented that little Bennett has the most wires attached to him of any baby here at the hospital!  Not sure that's a claim to fame that we want.  But they keep telling us that he's looking good- so we're going with that.

All grandparents have now had a chance to meet him.  Grampa and Nana (Jerry and Liz) came by Thursday night.  Mimi (Carolyn) came this morning and Grandma and Grandpa Tedford drove up and arrived this afternoon.  Uncle Andrew and Aunt Gentry will be by at some point tomorrow.

I'll try to get some more thorough updates posted as they do help me wrap my brain around everything.  Plus they're a nice record of everything we've gone though.  However, my brain is mush.  I don't think I was ever able to fall asleep on Wednesday night.  I did sleep a bit last night but had to get up a few times to pump- really no different than if we were at home and I had to get up to feed him.

A Mini Update

Today I went back for another NST and a BPP.  Passed the BPP with flying colors.  Amazing what can happen when you get a chance to eat lunch, and you drink a Coke on the ride over.  :)

Unfortunately, Baby didn't pass the NST.  However, the nurse commented afterward that some babies never pass a NST, so she didn't seem overly concerned.

Back again on Wednesday for another day at the two hospitals.  And in theory, we scheduled appointments far enough apart that we'll have time to get lunch.

33 Weeks

Your baby is proportioned like a pineapple when it comes to weight -- a little over 4 pounds. (Length: more than 17 inches, head to heel.)

33 Weeks- Development

Your Baby This Coming Week

Your baby weighs almost 5 lbs (2250 g) and is 12.8 inches (32cm) from crown to rump and about 19.8 inches (44cm) long.
If your baby were born now, she would be considered "pre-term" rather than premature. This distinction is based on fetal maturity, particularly the maturity of the fetal lungs. A pre-term baby, unlike a premature baby, is likely to have well-developed lungs and is less likely to need intensive care.
Your baby is surrounded by a red glow when sunlight shines on your belly and may be aware of this as she is able to differentiate between light and dark.
Your baby's hair is getting thicker, though it may be a different color when she is older.
She is currently shedding her lanugo, the fine downy hair that previously covered her body.
More vernix, the waxy coating that protects your baby's skin while submerged in amniotic fluid, is building up.
Your baby's adrenal glands are producing more steroid hormone, the androgen-like hormone that indirectly aids your milk production. Your baby is currently producing ten times more of this hormone than a normal adult and the adrenal glands are currently the same size as those of an adolescent. They will shrink after birth.
Your baby is laying down bone. To do this, she will draw calcium from you.
Your baby has taste buds and it has been suggested that she can taste and develop tastes for flavors found in the amniotic fluid, particularly flavors that you eat on a regular basis.

Your Body This Coming Week

Your baby is beginning to drop in your pelvis and you may have noticed that the shape of your abdomen has changed because of this. This may also cause increased pressure in your pelvic region.
While Braxton Hicks contractions are probably becoming more regular, you may also experience false labor. This is different from Braxton Hicks contractions because false labor, unlike Braxton Hicks, can be very painful. These contractions are irregular and usually last under 45 seconds and are not sustained. If you are unsure if you are experiencing false labor, you should contact your care provider.
If your water breaks, you should contact your doctor immediately.
You may have bloody show that occurs as the cervix stretches and dilates, especially right after a vaginal exam. You may also pass a mucus plug. Neither bloody show or passing the mucus plug necessarily indicates that labor will commence right away, but it will not be far away.

33 Week Journal

How far along? 33 weeks
Total weight gain/loss: Up 2 pounds from 2 weeks ago, when the battery died in the scale.
Stretch Marks: Just noticed a couple more little ones this morning.  Overall, not bad at all though.
Sleep: Decent enough.
Best moment this week: Hearing that the baby's heart hasn't gotten any worse than it was a week ago.
Worst moment this week: Knowing that the chances of survival post-delivery aren't that great.  Lots of unknowns for the future.
Movement: I thought movement was pretty good, but apparently not good enough yesterday afternoon.
Belly Button in or out? Slightly out.
Wedding rings on or off? On.
What I'm going to miss/What I can't wait for: I'm ready to be done going to the doctor!
Weekly Wisdom: Don't dwell on the negative.
Milestones/Fun Moments: I think this was the first week they told us how much the baby weighs.  Too bad they had such conflicting numbers.
What we need to do: Have this baby!

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Today was a LONG day!

Here's how the schedule was supposed to look.
7:45 (try to arrive at 7:30)   Ultrasound
9:30 MRI
11:00  Fetal ECHO
1:00  OB appointment
2:15  Ultrasound and BPP

Yeah.  I think the theme of the day was that we (or the doctors) were always running behind schedule.  We didn't finish up until 5:00.  And we didn't really get a break at all except for about half an hour between the MRI and the ECHO.  We got a couple of cute ultrasound pictures, which I'll have to scan and post later.

So how did it go?

Ultrasound went well.  Last week at my BPPs it was sometimes hard to get a good look at some things because Baby wasn't really moving around that much.  So in preparation, I had lots of OJ on our way to the hospital so that Baby would wake up.  It worked.  Baby was moving around a lot, doing lots of practice breathing, etc.  I'm not sure if she actually did an official BPP or just quickly looked at those items, but she said we got an 8 out of 8.  Also, based on measurements that she took, she estimated that Baby currently weighs about 3 pounds, 14 ounces.  And I think in general, everything looked good (other than the heart).

Next up was the MRI.  Very weird experience.  I've never thought of myself as being one who is claustrophobic.  I had closed my eyes on my way into the MRI machine and opened them briefly once I was in.  I had to close them immediately.  Very tight space.  So I kept my eyes shut and tried to focus on my breathing.  I would start to doze off a bit, and then there would be loud noises and I'd wake up.  Not really sure how long it took- I think about 20 minutes.

We didn't get a chance to speak with the doctor who performed the MRI, but the cardiologist spoke with her and said everything looked ok.  After the MRI, we had a little bit of a break so we went and got a snack.  We thought we would have enough time to grab lunch before the OB appointment, so we kept it light.

So next up was the ECHO.  Overall not too bad.  Not sure what the difference was, but he seemed much more personable today.  He didn't feel that things had worsened at all since last week, which is good.  And we had plenty of time to go over the list of questions that we had.

• After delivery, how much time would we get with the baby before he/she has to go off to Children's?  Essentially none.
• What are the odds like?  Last week he mentioned the baby may not survive the pregnancy or delivery.  Really no concern from him at this point re pregnancy or delivery, but he'd estimate that post-delivery, there's a 70-80% chance the baby may not make it.  There are multiple options for things they can try once the baby is born, and probably won't be able to really decide what to do until after Baby is born.
• Any reason to deliver early?  How would that be determined? At this point he felt the only reason to deliver early would be if there were a benefit to immediate surgery.  He did not feel that there would be a benefit.
• C-section vs vaginal delivery?  Going into this I was kind of assuming I would have to have a section.  We kind of figured that a normal birth would stress the baby out too much and be bad for the heart.  Although he said it's ultimately up to my OB, he didn't feel there was a need to go with a section based on Baby's heart.
• After the baby is born, would Boy Chris be able to go with Baby to Cardiac ICU?  Yes!  I know it's probably completely unfounded, but I had this fear of him not being able to go with the baby, and then me not being able to find him/her.

So the next stop was to go over to the Brigham to meet with one of the OB nurses.  We had been told that none of the OBs would be available, but this would at least give us an introduction to the practice, etc.  Well we get there, running at least 20 minutes behind scheduled.  The nurse asks a few questions, really just trying to get a sense of my medical history- at least in regards to this pregnancy.  And she mentioned that she was hoping that one of the OBs would be able to meet me after my ultrasound.  Time for a few questions.

• I forget exactly what we asked, but it came up re inducing.  Basically, without a medical reason, not before 39 weeks.  And it could be up to me.  If I want to wait and see what happens, they can do that.  There are some benefits of being induced in that the medical support team that we'll need for the baby will know when it's happening, but if I were to go when be baby's ready, it wouldn't be a problem to get the necessary people to the delivery room.
• Another interesting comment, was that she said the baby would go first to the NICU at the Brigham.  This was surprising, because our sense from the cardiologist was that that the baby would pretty much be going straight to the Cardiac ICU at Children's.

Time to go for my ultrasound and BPP.  Keep in mind it's after 2:00 at this point.  Possibly closer to 3ish.  I haven't eaten since a chocolate croissant at 10:00. Baby was not co-operative.  They ultimately were unable to see the baby take a practice breath.  Didn't matter that Baby had done so earlier in the morning.  Also, based on the measurements that they took, they estimated that Baby weighs 3 pounds, 4 ounces.  So although the measurements from the morning may have put Baby in the 50th percentile, they were showing Baby as being in the 5th percentile.

Since they couldn't get Baby to do a practice breath, they sent me for a Non Stress Test (NST).  What this measures is Baby's heart rate.  They try to compare a normal rate vs any change in rate when Baby moves around.  But again, we had the issue where Baby didn't want to move.  By now it's 3:30/4:00ish.  I still haven't eaten.  So I failed this test as well.

After the NST it was back to meet with the OB.  First there was some confusion re where one piece of my paperwork went.  Then they wondered if there had been any weights given at earlier ultrasounds.  You would think, with as much as I've been going in for one test or another this would have been frequently measured, but apparently that wasn't the case.  They found one ultrasound from back in July that had a weight.  But it's hard to tell if the low weight estimate is because the baby is just generally growing at a slower rate, or if the heart problems are impeding the weight gain.  And then there's also the 10 ounce discrepancy between the measurements taken at Children's and those taken at the Brigham.  So what's next?

I get to go back tomorrow (Thursday) for another BPP and NST.  But since it was now 5:00, they couldn't schedule it as everyone has gone home.  So I get to call in the morning and have them tell me when to come in.  Hopefully it's not at a really inconvenient time.  At least I should be able to eat before hand.  Hopefully that will help things.

As to other follow-up.  Back in a week to meet with the OB again (still needs to be scheduled) and also back on Wednesday for another ECHO.  Don't know yet if there will need to be other BPPs and NSTs scheduled in there as well.  I hope not!

When we finally left, we grabbed some dinner at a local Bertucci's (Chris really wanted their rolls and oil) and then we headed home.  In the end of rush hour traffic.  Blech!  I think we were both very glad to finally get home- about 13 hours after we left this morning.

32 Weeks

Your baby is taking up more and more space in your uterus and weighs as much as a large jicama -- about 3 3/4 pounds. (Length: about 16 3/4 inches, head to heel.)